Originally Posted by deejov
How is he getting his needs met? Do you know?
In other words.. does he really have zero sex drive (and why, and what is he doing about it) or is he getting "off" some other way \ person?
Everyone will scream that this is not normal for a guy to go 6 months. And they are probably right.
Whatever is going on.. it shouldn't be acceptable to just not have sex for months at a time. Find out why.
This crossed my mind once. Did he get it somewhere else? But come to think of it, it's highly unlikely. He stays at home most of the time, and if he goes somewhere he'd ask for me to go with him. We're like having this 24/7 together life. If it's about social life, it is I who have friends to hang out for a coffee etc. He doesn't. He meets people for work or for church-thing.
Sometimes, I wish that he'd come to me one day, telling me that he's gay (I don't mind at all, really. I have lots of gay friends, and they're nice persons). But he doesn't show the signs.
And about getting off on porn (that's the easiest explanation), again, it's me the porn 'expert'.
i find my problem is so frustrating because i dont know the 5Ws and that H