Originally Posted by Enchantment
As long as a husband is being considerate of his wife and being neither overly obsequious nor overly domineering, it it all good.
However, you do need to make sure that in the 'leading' you don't become domineering or insensitive. If your wife is well and truly not up for sex, you may have better success waiting for a more opportune time and not make too much of a habit to just take - duty sex all the time is pretty pitiful and morale-debilitating in my opinion - on both people's parts.
Your wife sounds like a lucky lady.
Thanks for the "best wishes!" Believe me, being insensitive or domineering is not my nature. In fact, just the opposite. Some "Alpha" added in will only help. There is also no "duty sex" here, just a willingness to meet the others need.
When I read the post on the MMSL site about the wife not needing an orgasm, but saying, "Go ahead...have some fun!" My wife said, "That is what I have trying to tell you!"
Just to give an example though, yesterday morning, I did not ask her, I just snuggled up, started kissing her passionately, and exhibited the attitude like, "I have to have you NOW." At one point I said, "I want you on top of me," which she gladly did. I must say, judging from her loud moaning, I rocked her world!