Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - Husband and I are separating after 11 years. I'm losing it.

Shaggy · 12-03-2011, 10:48 PM

Since you have a history of denying him sex, but quickly slept wth a friend after separating,he's going to feel betrayed deeply, more deeply than just a ONS.

If you have any hope of beng with him, you've got to help him deal with the humiliation, rejection, betrayal anger and hate he feels from this.

Maybe therapy, but it's a lot of work, it may not work, he may be so far hurt that even if he can stay on the short term, his feeling will leave hm a shell with you around,
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Shaggy Member Join Date: Jul 2011 Posts: 8,868	Re: Husband and I are separating after 11 years. I'm losing it. Since you have a history of denying him sex, but quickly slept wth a friend after separating,he's going to feel betrayed deeply, more deeply than just a ONS. If you have any hope of beng with him, you've got to help him deal with the humiliation, rejection, betrayal anger and hate he feels from this. Maybe therapy, but it's a lot of work, it may not work, he may be so far hurt that even if he can stay on the short term, his feeling will leave hm a shell with you around, Posted via Mobile Device