This is my story: I think she's getting it
So it's been about a month now and I have started to notice that when she is ready to have sex she initates that we drink, which I don't mind, but have noticed that this is the only time we have sex. I'm starting to think that she needs to be drunk to open up sexually or to enjoy sex at all. Since the discussion of our sex life and her opening up sexually and sharing with me what she likes we have had sex 10x's in 2 weeks all while we were drunk never while being sober. I was ever on vacation during Thanksgiving week and she told me that the drinking and sex was just a thing to relax her for sex, which I like to drink, but that this couldn't be a all the time thing, which I agreed. Is this something I need to just wait out or take charge and put off drinking at all to see what happens?