Originally Posted by SunnyT
It gets old...and degrading thinking that your partner "has to get drunk to enjoy you" .... ick. BTDT. Of course, that is probably not actually what is going on with them. It's not you.... it's them. But that doesn't fix it.
I'd not drink with her... for now anyway. Occasionally is different. I'd tell her to go ahead, but that you want to be ALL THERE when it's time for fun!
Usually the drinking is a mutual thing and if I don't drink with her then she choose's not to or she drinks and talks on the phone.