bandit0000

You know these replies have helped me a great deal.
However it just seems he expects things to go completely back to normal. To me he is not making much of an effort & I do not know if he is still in contact with this woman, although he obviously says he isn't. He does not seem interested in sleeping with me either.
The strangest thing happened to me last week, I actually met a man who I seem to have lots in common with, says he would never cheat (as his ex did to him) & seems very interested in me.
Now before all this happened with my partner, I would normally not have given anyone else the time of day, but I have clicked with this lovely man. I have 'nt done anything & wouldn't don't get me wrong, but I am just like a lovesick schoolgirl. I have' nt eaten properly for 3 days & my stomach is in knots.
I am now not so bothered about my partner & infact am dreading going away with him on holiday next week. What should I do?
This new man says go on holiday with an open mind & if we can work things out then great, but if I am still interested in him when I get back then he is willing to give things a go with me, but only when I have definitely split. As I said he does not believe in cheating, nor do I.
I just feel the timing of meeting this man is fate or something, like it was meant to be.
I am very happy, sad, confused, excited. Very weird, but if nothing else it has opened my eyes up to the possibility there may be something else out there for me.
Thanks for listening to my ramblings, it helps. Any advice?