klop

I am a great husband because I make my wife feel loved. I am a great lover because I make my girlfriend feel loved. The question was NOT "should I tell my wife” The answer to that is NO. My question was "should I tell my girlfriend" Telling my wife might clear my conscience but it would hurt my wife. I have told my girlfriend from the start that I will never leave my wife. We have a happy loving relationship. My only complaint is the lack of really great sex. I find it humorous that women in this forum feel as though they no longer need to satisfy their men after marriage. For better or worse is referencing the challenges in life you face together. It is not a requirement for a man to remain faithful to a woman who does not satisfy sexually just because she doesn't want to. It would be different if there was a physical restriction that prevented sex, which would be a challenge the couple would face together. This is not the situation in my case.
I don't want to string my girlfriend along or mislead her in any way. I love her too much for that. (yes, I love her). So my question of should I tell my girlfriend has pretty much been answered if I filter out all the other BS about telling my wife and coming clean. This is my cross to bear, not hers. I will carry that secret to my grave. I love my wife too much to ever hurt her like that.


Klop