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nurse2008 · 02-25-2008, 02:06 PM

I've heard a saying once..."When God closes a door, He always opens a window".

Although during this difficult time this new man sounds like a great distraction, a bit of cushion, if you will, to help ease the pain you may feel at the loss of trust or love of your current partner, I would be wary. My heart is telling me that this man is likely not the solution to your current situation. YOU are the solution. Asking yourself difficult questions like, is your current partner the only man that has cheated on you? Are you attracting men of similar nature? Are you happy on your own, do you feel satisfied in your life without a man present?

Ultimately you know what you need to ask or explore to help yourself heal and hopefully attract a man or a relationship that is respectful and worthy of your time and love when the time is right.

I wish you strength. It may help to gather your support around you, those who know and love you.

02-25-2008, 02:06 PM	#11 (permalink)
nurse2008 Registered User Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Canada Posts: 7	Re: Online Affair. I'm new please help. I've heard a saying once..."When God closes a door, He always opens a window". Although during this difficult time this new man sounds like a great distraction, a bit of cushion, if you will, to help ease the pain you may feel at the loss of trust or love of your current partner, I would be wary. My heart is telling me that this man is likely not the solution to your current situation. YOU are the solution. Asking yourself difficult questions like, is your current partner the only man that has cheated on you? Are you attracting men of similar nature? Are you happy on your own, do you feel satisfied in your life without a man present? Ultimately you know what you need to ask or explore to help yourself heal and hopefully attract a man or a relationship that is respectful and worthy of your time and love when the time is right. I wish you strength. It may help to gather your support around you, those who know and love you.