Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - After 17 years is it wrong to just want out?

Amplexor · 02-25-2008, 05:47 PM

Janice68

Unfortunately you’ve not given enough information to get much assistance from people here. What exactly are the problems? What have you tried so far to correct them? As a man who had my wife tell me 10 months ago that she loved me but wasn’t in love with me I know how your husband may feel. But my wife and I are still working on our marriage. Will it work out? I don’t know. But at least we gave it our best shot. We too have to children to be concerned about. My gut reaction is to try to assess the problems in the marriage and don’t give up with out making a effort at recovering. Many people will be hurt by the failure of the marriage. If you give it your best shot and it still can’t work out then at least you tried. It sounds like your husband wants to try and salvage it so I say give him a chance but make sure you relay to him the seriousness of the situation. Make sure he understands why you are not happy. Best of luck, no matter how this goes it will be difficult.

02-25-2008, 05:47 PM	#2 (permalink)
Amplexor Moderator Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Midwest Posts: 712	Re: After 17 years is it wrong to just want out? Janice68 Unfortunately you’ve not given enough information to get much assistance from people here. What exactly are the problems? What have you tried so far to correct them? As a man who had my wife tell me 10 months ago that she loved me but wasn’t in love with me I know how your husband may feel. But my wife and I are still working on our marriage. Will it work out? I don’t know. But at least we gave it our best shot. We too have to children to be concerned about. My gut reaction is to try to assess the problems in the marriage and don’t give up with out making a effort at recovering. Many people will be hurt by the failure of the marriage. If you give it your best shot and it still can’t work out then at least you tried. It sounds like your husband wants to try and salvage it so I say give him a chance but make sure you relay to him the seriousness of the situation. Make sure he understands why you are not happy. Best of luck, no matter how this goes it will be difficult. __________________ Amp Confidence – Love – Patience – Faith Are the tools to help heal a marriage.