Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - After 17 years is it wrong to just want out?

stav · 02-26-2008, 03:01 AM

Perhaps after so long together stuck in a bit of a rut, you are just a bit bored and want a bit of excitement.

Talk to hubby, and tell him how you feel.

The kids are old enough now for you not to worry too much about them, if you decided to take some time off and maybe go on a trip you've always wanted to do, learn a new skill together, have some fun.

Maybe you've always fancied learning to Salsa! You never know, maybe hubby is feeling the same way as you, and is waiting for you to say something.

You've been together a long time, you are not complaining that he mistreats you, or ignores you, and you don't say you hate being with him.

I think you just need to put a bit of oomph back into your lives, that 17 years of working hard and raising kids has taken out.

02-26-2008, 03:01 AM	#5 (permalink)
stav Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: London Posts: 151	Re: After 17 years is it wrong to just want out? Perhaps after so long together stuck in a bit of a rut, you are just a bit bored and want a bit of excitement. Talk to hubby, and tell him how you feel. The kids are old enough now for you not to worry too much about them, if you decided to take some time off and maybe go on a trip you've always wanted to do, learn a new skill together, have some fun. Maybe you've always fancied learning to Salsa! You never know, maybe hubby is feeling the same way as you, and is waiting for you to say something. You've been together a long time, you are not complaining that he mistreats you, or ignores you, and you don't say you hate being with him. I think you just need to put a bit of oomph back into your lives, that 17 years of working hard and raising kids has taken out.