Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - Please help...I want to save my marriage!

charlene · 12-07-2011, 02:28 AM

You should have been quicker. Why is he the one who decides when you should come back. You should have been the one to tell him that: to pack his bags if he is not willing to work with YOU!
Yes you didn't handled the situation quite good, but of course you couldn't have. He refused to stop seeing her... I think you should be the one making the rules. Well you can also apologize for the slap to begin with. But then make should you start dealing with the trust issues in your marriage, when there's no one in the picture,who's causing them!
Good luck

12-07-2011, 02:28 AM	#2 (permalink)
charlene Member Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: Europa Posts: 190	Re: Please help...I want to save my marriage! You should have been quicker. Why is he the one who decides when you should come back. You should have been the one to tell him that: to pack his bags if he is not willing to work with YOU! Yes you didn't handled the situation quite good, but of course you couldn't have. He refused to stop seeing her... I think you should be the one making the rules. Well you can also apologize for the slap to begin with. But then make should you start dealing with the trust issues in your marriage, when there's no one in the picture,who's causing them! Good luck