Originally Posted by christine15
I know that my problem will seem petty compared to some, but my husband recently told me that he had feelings for my good friend. I had noticed that he was always trying to tag along on our outings, and he talked about her all the time. When I asked about it several times he called me ridiculous and said I was imagining things. I found some flirty emails he sent her and he finally admitted that he liked her and that she made him feel good. Nothing actually happened and I know that he loves me. I just can't help wondering if this means something more serious, if he was in love with her and was just too scared to go for it. I haven't mentioned that she is movie star hot and sweet and kind to boot. I feel like I will never compare to her.
Will someone please tell me that I'm being stupid and making too big of a deal out of this?!
You are not being petty at all...this could be an emotional affair, and the friendship between the two of them HAS to end if your marriage is to survive. Speak to your friend and find out if she reciprocated his flirtiness (as harmless as she may have thought it was). If she did, then as someone else posted, she is not your friend.