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Originally Posted by nurse2008
I've heard a saying once..."When God closes a door, He always opens a window".
Although during this difficult time this new man sounds like a great distraction, a bit of cushion, if you will, to help ease the pain you may feel at the loss of trust or love of your current partner, I would be wary. My heart is telling me that this man is likely not the solution to your current situation. YOU are the solution. Asking yourself difficult questions like, is your current partner the only man that has cheated on you? Are you attracting men of similar nature? Are you happy on your own, do you feel satisfied in your life without a man present?
Ultimately you know what you need to ask or explore to help yourself heal and hopefully attract a man or a relationship that is respectful and worthy of your time and love when the time is right.
I wish you strength. It may help to gather your support around you, those who know and love you.
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Hi,
Yes he is the only man who has cheated on me.
No I do not think I am attracting the same type as I said this new man would not even consider cheating as he had it done to him, also he is not willing to take things any further with me until I decide one way or the other about my current situation. This means he does not want me to cheat either.
Yes I would be happy on my own & do not need a man in my life to feel fulfilled.
It is just that this new man came totally out of the blue when I was so not looking, but if nothing else he has given me a new lease of life, boosted my confidence & made me realise there is more to life than feeling I have to stay with a cheat because he is my best bet.
So if nothing comes of the the situation with this new man, then I will at least thank him for that.
Thanks all for your help.
Much appreciated.