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Originally Posted by brat30  I think cheating is wrong but to spy is just as bad as cheating |
Completely disagree. I don't even see where spying is wrong at all, you are married after all. I agree it would be wrong to spy on your ex spouse after your divorce. My observation is that spying usually starts after one hears "I'm not in love with you" or "I don't love you". I know that's when I started. And I still check in after my wife is around certain people or when she behaves in a particularly divisive fashion. There is always a cause and effect and the cause is most likely from outside our marriage
