Re: My husband resents my mom time....
Hi Demora, please spend time more with your mother and let your husband understand your concern. Whether he understands it or not it is up to him to grow mature at this time. Let me share you my story knowing that you are the only daughter of your mom.
Before in 1998, my Dad died and I was the only one that was not in his deathbed. I live in separate city and no boat nor plain was available at that time. I love my Dad very much and until now I haven't got over it. We only have one mother, one father who had cared for us so much. They know where they stand of course with husbands and your family now. But the thing is if they need you more now you have to fight for it. Who knows your husband will see the value of your caring and loving with your parents he can't see with other women. So it will lessen the risk of him looking at other women because of your qualities. Just care for your mom. You wouldn't want to live regretting the rest of your life because you've chosen somebody's emotions over her desperate needs. She needs you now go and care for her. Be frank and honest with your husband. Needs meet quality time too. Tell him you would do the same if he will be ill like her. Go on and tell him that. He may very well go and take care of your mother too. Never ever lessen your caring and love for your mother especially now.
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