| | Re: Pretty Much Have Lost It
I would look under the dashboard / center console area, carpet too. its got to be hidden somewhere clever but easy to access.
My gut instinct says she's underground now. maybe you need a hidden cam in car / bathroom to follow.
The noise level is designed to foil your VAR. I'm sure she knows its in there and is working around it being there, hence the noise level during her conversation. maybe if you had a noise filtering program, you could isolate her voice from the background - could defeat the loud stereo designed to throw your VAR off.
The counseling "homework" where she's supposed to be talking to you and isn't - its cause she isn't invested in your relationship anymore. she's biding her time.
Sorry to hear of this.