12-08-2011, 11:58 AM
Join Date: May 2010
| | Re: Spying on your spouse, not such a good idea!
Originally Posted by FrankKissel
I'm sorry you've had a terrible experience with marriage. Really, I am.
But the fact of the matter is most spouses don't cheat.
If you choose treat your significant others as cheaters who just haven't been caught yet, that's your prerogative. I think that's corrosive to a relationship, but that's just me.
Still, do a favor and please don't condescend to those of us who don't believe spying is part of a normal, healthy marriage.
And, frankly, all the spying in the world isn't going to stop a person determined to cheat. It may catch them sooner, but that's after the fact. Rather than focus on spying, focus on creating a marital environment that's less susceptible to infidelity.
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Not even putting your words into my mouth as you attempt to do here makes your argument work. And you are still magnificently na´ve and as I say long may it last.