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Originally Posted by SadSamIAm  Are you saying that people that focus on creating a marital environment that's less susceptible to infidelity don't get cheated on? |
Doesn't the phrase 'less susceptible' answer that question for you?
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You said less susceptible. So what about the person that is doing this, but there are a number of red flags that make that same wonderful spouse think that their partner is cheating? What should they do, to confirm or deny what they think is going on?
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If you spend some time reading the thread, you'll see that I've said many times investigating red flags is fine. I'm arguing against the notion that spying on one's spouse as a matter of routine is normal and expected (such as the posters who proclaim a spouse has no right or expectation of privacy).
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