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Amplexor · 02-27-2008, 05:06 PM

Ahubby

There could be any number of reasons for her lack of interest. Physical, emotional, psychological…. Since you have tried counseling already it may not be emotional but that is usually my first instinct. That possibly you are not providing her with some need and because of that she has withdrawn physically. The fact that she doesn’t kiss you and is not interactive would support this idea. That was the root of the problems in my marriage. Counseling again might help. Also try reading Chapman’s Five languages of Love to see if you are not connecting in your love for each other. Definitely have her speak with her OB/GYN to rule out any physical problems. Let her know intimacy is important to you and you want her to enjoy it also. Sex lives can improve. Good luck.

02-27-2008, 05:06 PM	#2 (permalink)
Amplexor Moderator Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Midwest Posts: 712	Re: Almost sexless marriage Ahubby There could be any number of reasons for her lack of interest. Physical, emotional, psychological…. Since you have tried counseling already it may not be emotional but that is usually my first instinct. That possibly you are not providing her with some need and because of that she has withdrawn physically. The fact that she doesn’t kiss you and is not interactive would support this idea. That was the root of the problems in my marriage. Counseling again might help. Also try reading Chapman’s Five languages of Love to see if you are not connecting in your love for each other. Definitely have her speak with her OB/GYN to rule out any physical problems. Let her know intimacy is important to you and you want her to enjoy it also. Sex lives can improve. Good luck. __________________ Amp Confidence – Love – Patience – Faith Are the tools to help heal a marriage.