opio

Man i know a married couple that hasn't shagged for 2 years... and they are still married... wtf? I now i scratch my head all the time as she explains to me about her toys... wth?

You are in a messed up situation... An angry GF is never good, it sounds like you are beginning to underestimate the women in your life. Women are far better cheaters then men, and do you know why? Because they THINK IT OUT... I agree that you are wasting time with both women, your GF can be with someone that is available and your wife can be with someone that truly loves and respects her (not that you don't)... Sex is important... but regardless how you look at it... cheating (physically or emotionally) is not fully respecting your wife...

You have a lot on your plate and a lot to think about... How would you feel if your wife had someone on the side? Your answer to this one will give you an idea of how she may feel... The mirror is always two-sided, you see what you want to see until you decide to look deeper...

Have you ever seen 'Unfaithful'? Watch it... it will make you think twice about your marriage...

good luck i wish you the best...