| | Re: When do you realize it's never going to work and let it go?
OMG Kissjo. I dream of affairs so much that it's difficult for me to separate reality from fantasy sometimes. LOL!!! I'm lacking so much affection that I worry if I encountered the wrong man, I might fall into temptation. I try my best to avoid it by all means. I've never done anything at all, but I do fantasize about it all of the time. Additionally, there are times when things are quiet and cool, but most of the time I stare at him and think, "my goodness why did I do this to myself?"
I too had second thoughts at the last minute. However, I hate to admit this but I didn't want to let so many people down so I went through with it. Also I thought things would get better once we were official. WTH was I thinking???
I CANNOT believe the relationship you have with your husband's ex-wife. That's the type of relationship that I tried to establish with my husband's ex, but she's such a rat that she wouldn't even consider it. When a woman is confident about herself, she doesn't need to act ugly towards her ex's new love, especially when she doesn't even want him any longer (or perhaps she does). I had absolutely no problem with her. I wasn't intimidated by their past at all, but I can't say the same for her.
Although I'm only 29, I feel 92. I'm not getting any younger and I want a family. I know it wouldn't be fair to bring a child into this world in my current situation. Furthermore, I don't want a situation where if my husband and I divorce, he'd be trapped into my life forever. Once we're divorced, I never want to see him again.