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It's totally ok for you to feel the way you do about her weight gain. When my husband and I met, I was a part-time model. Over the course of 5 years, I packed on about 30 unattractive pounds. Then I had two kids and was left with a big fat body. Well, my husband did the usual "No you're fine. You had kids." blah blah blah. One day he snapped and told me I was disgusting and this is not what he signed up for. Sure i wanted to die a little but it got my big fat butt in gear. He since apologized and did everything he could to help me lose my weight (took me 4 months btw...now that's what a fire under your ass can do!). In the end, I lost the weight and am a curvier version of my younger self. If my husband isn't attacking me, he's staring from across the room, or asking me for pics thru text. lol! Most importantly, our sex life is spank-tac-ular now. Ladies, don't judge. Men and women need different things from their spouses and a tiny waist is one of them. Good luck!