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Jooky · 04-18-2009, 10:38 AM

We spoke this morning and decided to amicably dissolve our marriage. We're keeping the company going for income purposes, although we won't be working together.

My temper was only a symptom of my unhappiness. Her drinking likely was her symptom. We weren't a good match, although we did have a good time and learned some lessons from each other and accomplished a lot.

The pain is manageable. I've been prepared for this. I'm taking some CYA moves to protect my assets, despite our divorce being amicable, because you never know what person your loved one will turn into during a divorce, but we're playing nice so far and I think we can make it though this fine.

For the record, we were both "verbally abusive". I think I likely made my part sound worse than it was, and I thought I was doing a good job of seeing it from her perspective. And I'm continuing to be gentle as I lead us through this divorce.

Ehh, I'm a good guy. She's a good lady. We'll be fine.

But not together.

04-18-2009, 10:38 AM	#5 (permalink)
Jooky Registered User Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Midwest Posts: 12	Re: Probably too late We spoke this morning and decided to amicably dissolve our marriage. We're keeping the company going for income purposes, although we won't be working together. My temper was only a symptom of my unhappiness. Her drinking likely was her symptom. We weren't a good match, although we did have a good time and learned some lessons from each other and accomplished a lot. The pain is manageable. I've been prepared for this. I'm taking some CYA moves to protect my assets, despite our divorce being amicable, because you never know what person your loved one will turn into during a divorce, but we're playing nice so far and I think we can make it though this fine. For the record, we were both "verbally abusive". I think I likely made my part sound worse than it was, and I thought I was doing a good job of seeing it from her perspective. And I'm continuing to be gentle as I lead us through this divorce. Ehh, I'm a good guy. She's a good lady. We'll be fine. But not together.