I sincerely appreciate this web site and all the caring comments. It minimizes the experience of isolation, loneliness and hopelessness that can be experienced in a troubling relationship. It is comforting to be able to communicate discreetly and to receive and give support. The benefit of writing and coming back over time to read additional supportive comments a few days later is that it allows me to get clearer perspective of the problem and what roll I am playing. It allows me to recognize my own avoidance and who I am being and what I am allowing by not being active in resolving the conflict. It is amazing how one can be lonelier in a marriage then when not in a relationship at all. This forum is extremely beneficial. I believe this site can help people discover and develop a healthier relationship by sharing their experiences and perspectives. This site is a wonderful gift to society. Thank you, thank you to all of you.
