Re: Is one better than the other??
This is not doing anybody any good. Your son feels put upon, the daughter is learning unwelcome behaviours and it's putting a strain on your relationship.
Children need a set of rules to live by, so your fiance is doing her no favours in the long run. Does he set out with a plan to be fair then fail in the face of action? I think sitting down as a family (all four of you) & discussing expected behaviours & consequenses would be a good starting point.
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