| | Re: How often is too often to view porn?
Dymond0: If you want to have more sex with your husband, then make it easy for him to have sex with you. When you and he get into be to have sex do not let out a loud sigh and tell him how tired you are and your back aches. Don't make him wait until the laundry is done. Initiate sex every day. Or plan for sex. Make a date for tomorrow at a specific time.
A normal man (probably women too) is going to take the path of least resistance. If masturbating becomes easier and less logistically involved than having sex with you, guess which one he will choose. You need to make sex easier. Yes, ideally every act of sex would be above average and would be a cherished moment of communal bliss. It does happen, but we cannot expect that every time.
Men are not robots. Erections do not happen on command. Sex, even bad sex does not happen by magic. Sex has to be cultivated.