| | Re: Is he abusive or just an a**hole - is there a difference????
Abusive people are *******s simple. You say your chilhood was the same without the name calling just the anger, didn't you ever say to yourself that you will not let your kids see, hear and go through what ever you went through. It's not acceptable for your son to hear his dad call his mum a *****. Im sure the last thing you want is for your son to grow up and think its ok to treat women like that because its not. Good for you to stand up for yourself just bare in mind not in front of your son. Alot of women just cry themselves to sleep and hope for a miracle or stay for the sake of their kids but its wrong. My advice would be to talk to him and tell him how his making you feel also what the end result will be if he continues this behaviour. His got to know that its not ok for him to do this and a person can only take so much befoe they call it a day. Good luck.