Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - My husband says he doesn't love me anymore.

sisters359 · 04-21-2009, 07:00 AM

I am on the other side of this, the one who is not in love anymore, after 20 years of marriage, 25 years together. It's been this way for a long time, however.

I've asked a similar question and basically I hear it is possible to recapture the feelings, but no one has been able to tell me "how," or what might be good indicators that I will be able to. So if your husband is willing to try, then it is worth the effort. In the meantime, you should be thinking about what YOU need and about the possibility of a future without him, too. Being a confident, independent person yourself will never be a bad thing even if the marriage survives and flourishes.

Best of luck.

04-21-2009, 07:00 AM	#2 (permalink)
sisters359 Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: SE Wisconsin Posts: 2,471	Re: My husband says he doesn't love me anymore. I am on the other side of this, the one who is not in love anymore, after 20 years of marriage, 25 years together. It's been this way for a long time, however. I've asked a similar question and basically I hear it is possible to recapture the feelings, but no one has been able to tell me "how," or what might be good indicators that I will be able to. So if your husband is willing to try, then it is worth the effort. In the meantime, you should be thinking about what YOU need and about the possibility of a future without him, too. Being a confident, independent person yourself will never be a bad thing even if the marriage survives and flourishes. Best of luck.