Originally Posted by Ten_year_hubby

People can call me whatever they want and do what they have to do, but I completely disapprove of my wife or my children visiting her mom or having other contact with her. I do not take specific action to prevent anyone from doing what they may wish to do but I provide absolutely zero material support to any meeting or any communication. If mom wants to come over and visit, I won't stop her and I will entertain myself in my room until she leaves. But I will not leave my home just so she can come over. And I am not shy about making my feelings known.

I have suggested to my wife that I am willing to meeting with her mom and hers or my pastor. If we find that we can all get on the same page regarding God, marriage, marriage partner's responsibilities to each other, protection of marriage from divisive outside influences and what is respectful behavior then I could be inclined to lighten up.