Thanks you guys.
I have spoken with my father in law a few times and he realizes what's going on but mother in law has her own opinions and whatnot about everything. I do plan on talking with her as soon as I can get husband out of the house for a few hours. I think giving him some money oughtta do it. lol
Husband is bi polar. He says because of the meds he takes he has to sleep but I don't buy that. I could be in the wrong. I've never known anyone to need 18+ hrs per day sleep. I know I don't.
Thank you again.