blueskies30

Today I have decided that from today on I'm going to make less contact with my husband.

I'm no longer going to text him hello in the morning unless he texts me, I'm no longer going to tell him I miss him, no I love you's.

I will engage him with conversation when he initiates.

I will let him know about people texting me in the early monring hours, which I have started doing today and it is true that a couple people have text me very early in the morning.

I told him that someone had text me at 2am after I posted on FB that I could not sleep. I told him I was asleep when they text. He wanted to know who it was. I said "oh just a friend."

Then another time I told him that a friend text me last night at 1am and I must not have relized it because I was asleep. That time I told him it was a friend that is a woman. So He has to know that the other one is male, whcih it is, but I'm not doing anything out of line or anything.

So far its already working because He had suggested that he stay over night at our home possibly next weekend