| | Re: Sexless marriage: 24-years-old and married barely a year
RE: "Well, we had great sex last night so we will see. But, I know it will take a lot of work to get back to where we were." It sounds like where you "were" is her being motivated to do what she needed to attract and keep you - consciously or instinctual. Indeed, you are there now. It will be your challenge to keep her interest, thoughts and motivations moving in that direction - IF it is your desire to remain with a woman of her disposition. You may want to give that some thought - relative to her expressed views of what men only want, apparently said with at least some discount of a like of sex on her part. She may have deep issues that will make this more than a hormonal or temperature fix. A couple of things that I don't think have been mentioned: 1) Get her off the pills to not only address possible hormonal issues, but also put you MORE in control of the ties of the relationship. She could decide to get pregnant - to keep you. That would be "easy," wouldn't it? 2) Sounds like her previous relationships were with Alphas. You are the sane and sensible Beta she needs, but you are way too Beta for your own sexual good. In fact, YOU are more control than you think, with YOU being able to help her "decide" if she is going to get pregnant, have an affair with an Alpha, or grow up to be YOUR wife and have better sex to keep her husband. Get more Alpha, turn up the heat, do a 180 . . . whatever. But, DON'T keep being so nice!
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