draconis

I think this bump will prove to be the best relationship tool in your life. Why argue over the little things? COmmunication is to important to a relationship but you must be able to listen and talk well. It doesn't matter if you and her each are unique people with different goals as long as you can do them together and support one another. My wife at 30 decided she wanted to go back to college. It was heck for 3 months filling in the gaps we needed to get her there, but we managed it, and I help her every chance I can even being a practice target for her and her phlebotomy class (ouch). The thing is that you can't let the little things get in the way. My wife plays WOW and I do not, but we set rules so she could play and it would not get in the way of our marriage. I like the fact she has found something fun that she likes, but not at the expense of spending time together so we talked it over and she still plays about 20 hours a week but when I am at my store and not home.

what are the silly things you argue about?

draconis