Originally Posted by newyorkny

my husband and i have been together for 4 years married for 7 months. *i am now 4 months pregnant and things are horrible at home. *he ignores me and watches tv or texts and e-mails on his phone or computer when we are home. the only time he is nice to me is when we are in front of other people.*he never wants to have sex with me, nor does he ever touch me. *We have not had sex since we cinceived. he barely even kisses me anymore. he used to call me and text me when we were not together and now it is difficult for me to get in touch with him when we are apart. he never acts like he is happ yor excited about my pregnancy. I am working full time at a demanding job with 12.5 hour days and i am so exhausted. *he doesn't help me around the house. i was so sick the first 3 months and he did nothing to help me feel better, he doesn't care about me or my feelings. *when i try to have a serious talk with him he yes's me to death and smirks. *he is disrespectful and completely insensitive. *If i cry because my feeelings are crushed he does not care and walks away. *i feel alone un loved and depressed. II have told him how I feel and exactly why i feel the way i do in a calm manner and he says NOTHING. the only comment he makes is OK i won't do that anymore and just continues down the same path. *this has been going on for some time. *I have a good job and know I can do it alone i am just hoping and praying that he will turn into a good man and caring husband. *i truly feel like he does not like me or have any respect for me. *maybe he is cheating? *I do not know what to do. *I cannot handle this anymore. Every day is a battle.*I just know the way things are right now is NOT healthy... please help!
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