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square1 · 12-20-2011, 10:53 PM

Was it just those bath sets he was going to say were just from him or all the gifts for work he was getting?

Personally it is not OK for my husband to buy bath products for another woman or really any gift that I don't get a say in especially if he's trying to pass it off as a just from him gift.

A few years ago he attempted to buy a valentines day card for a female friend he had known for a long time and she got him a birthday gift so he felt he had to get her something(he felt bad cause she got him concert tickets and he never picked them up to use) I asked him if he was out of his mind. He said he has gotten cards for female friends before, I said " yeah in grammar school everyone gets a card, but you are grown in a relationship you dont get valentines day cards for women you arent involved with/interested in it sends the wrong message". He put the card down. That was the first and last time that happened.

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square1 Member Join Date: Oct 2011 Posts: 274	Re: Would The Bother Anyone Else? Am I Paranoid? Was it just those bath sets he was going to say were just from him or all the gifts for work he was getting? Personally it is not OK for my husband to buy bath products for another woman or really any gift that I don't get a say in especially if he's trying to pass it off as a just from him gift. A few years ago he attempted to buy a valentines day card for a female friend he had known for a long time and she got him a birthday gift so he felt he had to get her something(he felt bad cause she got him concert tickets and he never picked them up to use) I asked him if he was out of his mind. He said he has gotten cards for female friends before, I said " yeah in grammar school everyone gets a card, but you are grown in a relationship you dont get valentines day cards for women you arent involved with/interested in it sends the wrong message". He put the card down. That was the first and last time that happened.