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waiwera · 12-20-2011, 11:01 PM

We've had three kids. i stayed home and kinda saw it my 'job' to cook, clean ( i really enkioyed making home this lovely 'soft place to fall' for my boys and hubby.
I also manage a vege/herb garden, chickens and amenity gardens... never had a cleaner or a nanny.
Having said that I was an organised and naturally tidy person BEFORE I had kids and i think that is the key here.
If a person isn't organised and tidy before kids there is no way it's going to magically happen AFTER kids.
She may not know HOW to organise her day and the house.

12-20-2011, 11:01 PM	#2 (permalink)
waiwera Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 1,291	Re: My SAHM wife is a slob! We've had three kids. i stayed home and kinda saw it my 'job' to cook, clean ( i really enkioyed making home this lovely 'soft place to fall' for my boys and hubby. I also manage a vege/herb garden, chickens and amenity gardens... never had a cleaner or a nanny. Having said that I was an organised and naturally tidy person BEFORE I had kids and i think that is the key here. If a person isn't organised and tidy before kids there is no way it's going to magically happen AFTER kids. She may not know HOW to organise her day and the house.