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Amplexor · 03-03-2008, 02:25 PM

Trdn168

I can relate to your situation as the time frame has been about the same for me. My wife and I are in a troubled marriage and sex stopped last summer. If your wife’s sexually desires have dropped significantly there are a couple of things you might look into. First off AliceIam is correct. Communication is the key to most issues in relationships. Discuss your issues small and big. Get them on the table and see what each of you can do to make the other happier. Getting counseling is a good step to move forward also. I’d encourage you to move forward with it. My experience tells me that there may be something missing for her. That she may not feel loved or desired. That was our case. Be sure you understand her everyday wants and needs. Take your time and show her you care for her and love her. Also that you desire her and want intimacy with her. Good luck, I know where you’re coming from.

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Amplexor Moderator Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Midwest Posts: 712	Re: Frustrated and Confused- please help. Trdn168 I can relate to your situation as the time frame has been about the same for me. My wife and I are in a troubled marriage and sex stopped last summer. If your wife’s sexually desires have dropped significantly there are a couple of things you might look into. First off AliceIam is correct. Communication is the key to most issues in relationships. Discuss your issues small and big. Get them on the table and see what each of you can do to make the other happier. Getting counseling is a good step to move forward also. I’d encourage you to move forward with it. My experience tells me that there may be something missing for her. That she may not feel loved or desired. That was our case. Be sure you understand her everyday wants and needs. Take your time and show her you care for her and love her. Also that you desire her and want intimacy with her. Good luck, I know where you’re coming from. __________________ Amp Confidence – Love – Patience – Faith Are the tools to help heal a marriage.