Originally Posted by GoingNowhere
He has, no efforts of mine have persuaded him to seek help. He was molested as a child.. Just like my fathers abuse led me to a destructive past with older men, I understand the emotional and psychological effects that he had to endure. I asked to help him. He refused. I said I don't think less of him as a person, he told me to let it go. This was before he cheated. He said it want a problem. I said if he isn't comfortable with me being there, I could simply support him while he sought counseling. I again was told to let it go.
I know he is damaged. I know he is hurting, but I tried to help and he wouldn't let me, now.. Its bigger than me... Its bigger than him... In my opinion, the only one who is big enough for this is God.
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Either losing you and his daughter will be his rock bottom and spur him into action. If it's not, it's his decision and personally, I'd highly doubt he'd ever get help if this doesn't do it. But that said, you're doing this for you and your baby - not him. Posted via Mobile Device