 Re: really, really caused a mess...
Nothing will ever get resolved fully unless you go completely no contact with OM. Everything for your H is still fresh you can't expect reconciliation right away, although you have already agreed to divorce. You must remember your H is very angry right now, your betrayal has put him there. And it could be he doesn't want to talk about feelings because you are STILL in contact with OM! Need someone to open up to? Start a journal or even vent on here but as a cheater don't expect sympathy from this forum. Besides that I would say keep going to your therapist, try to talk to your H, and understand that he is hurt and it will take heavy lifting on your part, complete transparency, and time for him to heal.
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