HN,
This is perfectly healthy. It is important however that you an accurate compass for who really was out of line when you have conflict. Otherwise as the LD spouse you are basically creating a situation where your HD partner has to apologize even when they are the injured partner - or go celibate. And that is not nice.
BTW - I have read some of your recent posts. You get serious props for making the effort to please your partner. I hope he realizes that it is a BIG thing when a LD partner makes the efforts that you do. I hope he is gradually learning to make the overall experience more positive for you. And that he goes the extra mile for you outside the bedroom, as you clearly do inside the bedroom.
On a related note I am going to guess that he is a good guy. The "tone" of your posts seems to have shifted in the last year or so. You seem to have moved from seeing mostly the side of the LD spouse to what appears to be a much more moderate "see both sides to it" posture.
Of course I might be wrong. Perhaps it is that I have moved more towards the middle and am not more sympathetic to LD partners.
Either way happy holidays.
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Originally Posted by HelloooNurse  Once in 3 days is definitely bareable. I think I could put up with that. But if there has been an argument that has not been resolved, and the 3rd day comes, then that is a shame. He gets no sex that day. I don't bone people that p1ss me off, I have too much self respect for that. But other than arguments or sickness I think I could put up with a 3 day thing. Any more than that would be pushing it. |
