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Old 03-04-2008, 09:06 AM   #13 (permalink)
fredfoxw28
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Default Re: created my own prison

Ok I have been in this situation, where my husband brings up my past. He knew I was no where near a virgin when he met me. Plus he asked me about my past and I was honest. Now until this day 9 years later I still have to pay for my past. Please keep in mind this had nothing to do with him. I had a number of sexual partners, I know more then him and he can't handle it. I think this is your hang up and insecurity. I'm sure there is something you did in your past that she may not be too crazy about. However, that's why it's called the past. Getting into any relationship is about taking chances. If you feel you can't deal with her past don't waste her time and yours because your jealosusy will never change. It may simmer down as the years go by, but it will still be there. Trust me, I have to deal with it and I chose to stick around. Your fiance on the other hand might just walk because you will be pushing her away.
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