Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - Hi, New Here...seeking some advice (married almost 12 years) Arguing all the time

tragic · 03-04-2008, 10:35 AM

I'm sorry but I think you should leave the guy. I think forcing your wife, by domination or just taking advantage of the fact that you were willing to go along with it for his sake, to have sex with other people is ridiculous and borders on abuse.

In my opinion your marriage was over the moment you left that room and he didn't get up and come with you and I think what you are waiting for is for him to admit that what he's doing is abusive towards you.

Of course you are flipping out. Its pretty much Post traumatic stress disorder with the angry outbursts.

Frankly you should pack up your stuff and get to walking because for this man to do this to you is unreal. No one deserves to be treated this way, especially not by someone you are supposed to trust as your friend and protector in life.

I really suggest you see a therapist.

03-04-2008, 10:35 AM	#3 (permalink)
tragic Registered User Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 8	Re: Hi, New Here...seeking some advice (married almost 12 years) Arguing all the time I'm sorry but I think you should leave the guy. I think forcing your wife, by domination or just taking advantage of the fact that you were willing to go along with it for his sake, to have sex with other people is ridiculous and borders on abuse. In my opinion your marriage was over the moment you left that room and he didn't get up and come with you and I think what you are waiting for is for him to admit that what he's doing is abusive towards you. Of course you are flipping out. Its pretty much Post traumatic stress disorder with the angry outbursts. Frankly you should pack up your stuff and get to walking because for this man to do this to you is unreal. No one deserves to be treated this way, especially not by someone you are supposed to trust as your friend and protector in life. I really suggest you see a therapist.