Originally Posted by bryanp
I think if she read that letter and continue with the affair then she is a total lost cause.
I tend to agree with you bryan. In a strange way she wouldn't have confided in me if I wasn't posting here on TAM. When we were talking I mentioned some things and that is when she came clean. I thought initially her disclosure was her way of asking me for help but as we continued to speak I realized she was too foggy to really hear me. That's why I asked for some ideas of what to say because I was and I guess still am hopeful that she's reaching out.