Re: 13 and pregnant?? WHAT??
Geez Waits.... You are getting your daughter the help she needs and that is awesome. You have persevered in what you thought was the right thing to do. Good for you!!!
No one can tell you what to do next, or what to do with the baby. You have to do what you think is right... for the baby. So far you have done everything that you've thought is right... trust yourself on this one as well.
Maybe you don't have to make this decision right away. I know, you think the sooner the better as far as the baby is concerned. But maybe take your time and figure it out, see how it goes with your daughter, and with the courts. Maybe you really CAN'T know what to do right now, because you don't know how things are going to go.
Take a breath, know that the wheels are turning, take it one day at a time right now. Keep working with SS, see if they will provide counseling for YOU for having to deal with all this mess. That might help.
Hang in there.... you are doing it.... slowly but surely....