Re: Married vs. Alone? Can you help?
The thing about marriage is for a successful happy marriage it takes two people being happy, and you are not. Your life has been structured, parents home to college and then in a relationship since, you never were truly solo, and personally I think everyone should spend some years being solo. Also it sounds like your wife may be a little insecure about letting you do things without her which may add to your feelings of being trapped.
Maybe try an occasional separate vacation or solo hobby before doing anything that can't be undone like leaving your wife. And encourage your wife to try some things on her own as well.
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