Originally Posted by RandomDude
She has been trying but she's doing it rather half-heartedly, and I haven't exactly been really enjoying it either due to the fact I still have this nagging thought at the back of my head of duty... duty... duty...
Meh, I'll talk to her about it tonight, and re-evaluate the terms of our agreement... calmly of course. Not going to spoil my bday and xmas especially since she already bribed me with a gift.
Thoughtful though, hifi speakers for my man-cave. Didn't really need them but oh well, now my entire street won't be able to relax the next time I decide to put on music with my daughter on my lap dancing. I'll have to check the bank later and find out how much it actually cost >.>
Nah I don't want to know... about to head to dinner, just going to enjoy the rest of today, then bash my head against the wall tomorrow morning until I knock myself out once I check the bank.
your situation is the reverse of most couples. because she puts SOOOOOOOO much importance on sex and frequency you are turned off by the lack of emotion that should accompany sex.
its a parodox of sorts. the ying and yang is all screwed up