Originally Posted by dingerdad
the remorse is there even if you don't see it in her post.
I guess you missed the part in her post about you being equally to blame for her first round of cheating. By accepting that from her, you are giving her the green light to cheat again the next time she gets unhappy.
You sound like a good and decent person that is being guided by your heart and not your brain. I wish you luck. I truly do.