Originally Posted by RDJ

She had a drinking problem (I have never drank). I expressed that her drinking was affecting our marriage and that she needed to slow down and if necessary, get help. Again, she was pi$$ed! Told me that I would NOT control her. I poured all of her alcohol down the sink. I expressed that she was free to drink all she wants, but NOT in our home. She left, came back with a bottle, I poured it down the sink and repeated my statement. She is free to drink, not in our home. She packed a bag and left. I expressed that I wanted her, not a drunk, she was free to come home when she could control her drinking (not stop, just control) 10 days later, she came home. I acted as though it never happened, I am loving as long as WE stay within boundaries. She now drinks, but does not get drunk, I'm fine with that.