| | Re: sex upsets me
mum, go see a doctor and go to a therapist. Sex is a normal, healthy, enjoyable part of a good marriage. You should be enjoying it.
Do you have any idea why you have these negative emotions related to sex? Do you have any kind of abuse or assault history?
It sounds a lot more than just your hubby isn't doing the dishes enough for you to want sex. I can guarantee you that your marriage is not going to survive if you can't find some workable solution which is agreeable to your husband. The status quo is not going to work.