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Old 08-03-2007, 12:26 AM   #7 (permalink)
stevewsc
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Location: rockhill, sc
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Default Re: can you help me save my marriage

her is a couple examples of her mother causing problems. she GAVE us 50 grand to put down on our house. she said she didnt want us to have to worry or fight over money in the future and that the kids needed plenty of land to play on. so we bought the house. well the next week my father in law gets the bank statement in the mail. he is furious. he knew nothing of the transaction. then mother in law says she LOANED us the money to cover her butt. so my wife had to hear daily of how they wanted their money back. this caused problems with us at home every week. when our other house sold i gave them 10 back and told them to leave us alone for a while. you see my mother in law is where my wife gets he lieing from. she lied about the money then gets caught and puts it off on us as a loan. second example. my wife wanted a pool shortly after we bought the house and i told her to wait till tax time cause we still had to get adjusted to the higher monthly costs of the house and payment. so she goes to her mothers for the weekend and comes home with a pool two days later. she said he dad loaned her the money and she was paying him back 100 bucks a week till it was paid for. so i became furious and irate. i asked her what we were gonna do to make up for the 400 a month and she shrugs her shoulders. so 3 weeks later i caught her dad alone and asked him why he loaned her the money without consulting me and he said laughing. her mother gave her the money. so i thought about it. her and her mother came up with the lie so i wouldnt get mad. why lie about it? what made me mad was that everytime she was over and we had company she would say how do you like the pool i bought for them? GRRRRRRR
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